Tuesday, December 1, 2009

30, Pregnant, and Homeless

Geez! We have been so, so so busy. This post might get a little long, but I'm going to try to update what we've been doing for the past couple weeks! We have so much going on, and I really just haven't had much time for blogging.

A few days after my last post, I turned 30. I've been telling my parents for years that I was 'pushing 30' but now it is official, I am old. However, just because I'm old doesn't mean that I can't have multiple birthday celebrations like we used to do in college. Ben's parents were even sweet enough to drive down to Atlanta for the family celebration! We enjoyed a fabulous dinner at La Grotta -- even Ellie joined in the fun! Here is one of the only pictures we have from the night. Notice my new Tahitian pearls? Ben did a FANTASTIC job on my gift (and so did his mom as she was the one who shopped for them!)


In the midst of all my birthday celebrations, we have also been frantically looking for a house. I hadn't wanted to mention anything on the blog until our contract was binding, but we ended up getting an offer on our condo and are scheduled to close on December 17. Although it is a good thing that we have a contract, it also really put the pressure on us to find something.

The weekend of my birthday, Ben and I were driving to meet our realtor at a house that we both really liked but I knew it wasn't going to work for us. We both really wanted to make it work, because we were just so discouraged about everything we had found up to this point and this was a really great house. Anyway, on our way to the house we drove past a neighborhood that we have both always loved. Long story short, the old builder went bankrupt and had built out (and sold) about half of the lots. A new builder came in and bought the distressed land and is about to start construction. The downside here is that there is no standing inventory so that means we have to build! That sounds like so much fun to everyone, but the reality is that when you build, you wake up in the middle of the night worried about silly things like where to put cable jacks and whether or not you chose the right tile in your bathrooms so it really isn't all fun and games. The upside is that we will end up with a great house that we both really love. As of now, our tenative closing date on the house is April 8.

Just in case you forgot, Shim is due to enter the world May 16. So, yeah we're literally going to close on our house and move in about 5 minutes before Shimmy is born! Awesome. At least I won't be expected to do any heavy lifting! But yeah, just to reiterate I am 30, pregnant, and (almost) homeless. That sounds like a really great TV show doesn't it?

10 comments:

Sarah said...

Congratulations on the contract on your condo! That's great news! And good luck with the building process!

ashley said...

Congrats! That's very exciting!!!

Are you renting in between?

BWL said...

and there it is....

the million dollar question from ashkindred

should get me taunted for a good 3 or 4 months on gmail

LOL

Anonymous said...

Matching outfits.......every day!

Tia Faulkner said...

That's great yall sold you place so quick!! I know all to well what it's like being pregnant and moving...fun stuff!

Jill said...

I love the title of this post! Happy belated birthday!

Kimberly said...

I love the title of this post! You have been saying you're pushing 30 for a long time. How does it feel to be there? :)

That's not the best pic. of my Sweet Ellie. We should have taken more that night. Oh yeah, someone wouldn't sit at the table. I remember now!!!!!

Megan said...

unfortunately - being pregnant while moving is the most annoying thing on earth. no one wants to let you do anything - while you feel perfectly capable - and really want to put everything in its proper place. anyway - i so sound like a debbie downer - relax and enjoy...
you can rearrange later.
and WAY TO GO on the sale of the town house!!! that is awesome!

The Slyes - Aubrey, David, and Harrison said...

YEAH! So excited about the contract and new home!!! You will have everything done in plenty of time... you are Miss Organized!

Equis said...

Congrats, congrats, and congrats!! When I turned 30 I said I was officially old and when I turned 35 I said I was pushing middle-aged, anyone close to my age however disagrees wholeheartedly. ;)

I think I’ve mentioned before that I love, love, love pearls. If I remember correctly you had a beautiful necklace in the pics of your friends wedding earlier this year. Ben is a good man and your mother has exquisite taste. Happy Belated Birthday!!