Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Announcement

So, I think the cat is pretty much out of the bag on this but some people said that it wasn't 'official' until I posted this on my blog.

I'M PREGNANT!

That is another reason I haven't been blogging for the last month. Obviously, Ben and I and our families have known this news since early September but we didn't want to make any announcement until we had reached the 12 week mark. Now that we have so I am making the news totally public.

I'll be totally honest - Ben and I were both in complete shock when we found out. We were happy, and of course wanted everything to be okay and for the baby to be healthy but it isn't necessarily the best time for us to have a baby right now. But once we sat down and thought things through rationally, when is really a 'good' time for a baby? That sounds terrible, I know. I'm just being totally honest here as to what our initial thoughts were. (Probably our child will read this one day and need lots and lots of expensive therapy because of those statements) Anyway, we were happy but maybe just slightly overwhelmed and of course our families were ecstatic.

Now that we've had some time to digest everything we are thrilled! I'm getting as much sleep as I possibly can right now because I know I'm going to have to give that all up once the baby arrives. I have already had several doctor's appointments and ultra sounds and everything looks to be great with the baby. Right now baby is the size of a lime and I think that is HUGE compared to the poppyseed that it started out as! I was actually able to hear Shim's (that one of his/her nicknames for now) little heartbeat which was so amazing. I was telling Ben last night that I cannot believe there is another human inside of me -- with a heart and lungs, and fingers and toes and everything else! Its just crazy to think about.

We decided that we will not find out the sex of the baby before delivery. That seems to drive everyone bananas, but to us just seems like it will be a fun surprise at the very end. I also think it is fun to hear people's predictions and we'll see if they were correct in the very end. I laugh at people now when they tell me their opinion because I have ALWAYS done that and Ben would typically respond "well you have a 50/50 chance at being right ... you're bound to be correct some of the time". Now that is what I think when people make their prediction to me.

As for my blog, I really do intend to blog more regularly. I do it for fun, and for my own entertainment so it is something I would like to keep up with. A few people have mentioned that they think my blog will change tunes (less cussing, less bitchiness, less shallowness) and I'm sure it will to a certain extent but I really do intend to keep this blog about me and just whatever I want to write about. Although I'm sure that will include quite a bit of baby stuff too!

This post is getting long.

We did our first 'belly' pictures over the weekend. I won't share them all because there was one pose that we took especially for Ben's blog -- so stay tuned over there if you're interested in that. Also, my mom made fun of me and said I was sticking my stomach out, so you be the judge! I think I'm starting to look kinda fat though! (And this is terrible lighting, I think. I'll have to work on that!)

This is my last paragraph, I swear. So I went to another doctor yesterday morning for my 1st Trimester Screening and when I checked in there was a vigilante nurse who asked me several questions: "do you have a fever?" "have you been around anyone with a fever?" "do you have a sore throat, runny nose, etc?" Well, I HAVE had a little sore throat, and some sneezing. I mostly think it is sinuses but I had to be honest with her. So I said that yes, I did have a bit of a sore throat and I'm pretty sure it is just sinuses but maybe it could possibly be a cold. Two seconds later, I looked like this :

13 comments:

SoMi's Nilsa said...

Congrats! I think even when couples are ready to have a child, hearing the official news that it's actually going to happen can be incredibly overwhelming. But, as big as the changes will be in your life, hopefully they'll be for the best. Great to hear you're doing fine so far!

Sarah said...

Congratulations Katie and Ben, officially!! We're excited for y'all!

EquisBuffy said...

I think you're right, if you plan for a baby it will likely never happen. You can never be prepared enough. With that said I'm sure you and Ben will make excellent parents. I love that you're holding off on finding out the sex of the child, that’s the way I would do it. I hope you like yellow and green because you will be bombarded with baby stuff in these colors. Congratulations again on the great news.

ashkindred said...

Oh yay!!! Congratulations! You're so cute, and your belly seems small to be 12 weeks, but I know nothing abut it. Mine is the same size, and I'm not pregnant to my knowledge. :)

I love that you're not finding out the sex of the baby. It's annoying and fun all at the same time! Looking forward to reading all about it!

Erin said...

I can't wait to meet little Shim Longmire!

Kimberly said...

YEA!!!!!! I'm so glad you went public with this information. I couldn't stand it anymore!

Tia Faulkner said...

So excited for y'all Katie!!:)

Becky said...

Can't wait to meet little Becky Rebecca Longmire!!

Michelle said...

Katie! I totally thought something was up when your last blog was about trying to sell your condo- since that's exactly what would motivate us to finally do it. I am so happy for ya'll, Katie, and personally think Becky-Rebecca (nickname Rebecky) is a beautiful choice for a boy OR girl. ;) I look forward to reading more about this in your blogs over the next few months.

Oh, and I love the photo at the end. :)

Accidentally Me said...

So happy for both of you...and your super-cute "accident":-). It makes me giggle, jump up and down and clap my hands:-D.

And I'm super happy to have to have a knocked-up-blog-buddy, too:-). You suppose Becky wants one of mine? That may make this all so symmetrical...

Stefanie said...

Congrats Katie! I'm so happy for you! Hope you have a happy and healthy 6 more months ahead of you!

Allison Cressman said...

CONGRATS! So thrilled for you. Keep me updated throught he blog!

Carrie Adams said...

I'm really behind on my blog reading/comments, but I can't wait to spoil Baby Longmire!!